Free videos

The conversations I have with couples, on camera.

Eleven short talks on what couples ask me most: eggshells, roommates, the same fight, the quiet drift. Under nine minutes each. No signup. Watch one together and see what it starts.

Walking on eggshells? The truth about your partner’s reactions

8:03

Why your marriage feels off, even when nothing is wrong

8:37

The nervous system fix that saves marriages

8:50

The real reason couples lose intimacy

6:49

The number one mistake that destroys couples during fights

6:14

Complaining vs. criticizing: one saves your marriage, one destroys it

5:34

When trying harder makes your marriage worse

7:13

This is what healthy communication looks like in marriage

6:22

Is your opening move ruining your relationship?

5:21

You think it is helpful. They think it is criticism.

5:00

Instead of therapy, most couples just need this

2:55

A second channel, for the playful version

Couples Conversations TV

A caveman and his wife go to couples therapy. The same Gottman research, told as short animated stories. For couples who learn better laughing.

Caveman goes to couples therapy

3:08

Keep going

Watching is a start. The workbook is the next step.

More than 100 guided prompts across nine conversations, free.

First name and email. The workbook arrives in a couple of minutes. Unsubscribe any time.

Free: the Relationship WorkbookNine guided conversations to start tonight.
Get it