Couples Conversations helps couples build a stronger marriage, at home, together.
Guided questions, books and tools for every stage of your relationship.
Why it exists
Couples would sit down after years together and tell me they no longer knew what to ask each other. Not because the love was gone, but because the questions had stopped.
Most of them did not need to be in my office. They needed better tools, earlier. Couples Conversations gives couples those tools, to use themselves, at home.
Dr. Ari SytnerCouples therapist, creator of Couples Conversations
Look inside
One question like these, and you’re no longer talking about logistics. You’re talking about us.
Tick the one the two of you would start with.
Building Our Story
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Our Continuing Story
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Pages 42 and 43 of the Master Edition. Every volume works the same way: one question, two people, a real conversation.
Everything lives here
Pick one, and start tonight.
Books, an app, a card deck, a course, videos and articles. One method, written by a couples therapist, for couples who want to do this at home.
The books · Paperback $14.99 · Kindle from $8.99
Five volumes of 300 questions each.
Paperback, hardcover, or Kindle. Each volume takes one part of your relationship and gives the two of you 300 ways into it.
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The app · $24.99 once
All 1,500 questions in your pocket.
The quiz and a daily check-in, on iPhone and Android.
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The Card Deck · $14
150 new questions in three levels.
Curious, Closer, and Honest. Print it at home tonight.
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Start With You · $47
Shift the relationship on your own.
A book, a 90-day guided journal, and eight short videos for one person.
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Videos and articles · Free
Short talks and ten-minute reads.
On the questions couples ask most: communication, money, connection.
Watch and read
“I absolutely love this book. It is an incredibly useful handbook for couples to build essential aspects of their relationship together. Thoughtful, practical, and deeply insightful.”
What readers say about the questions.
“Me and my partner have been together so long that sometimes we get lost in the comfortable-ness with each other, so were on autopilot. This book helped us reconnect with each other and helped us remember why we first fell in love.”
Cristal, Amazon review, Master Edition“Couples have a challenging time coming up with ways to have the deep conversations and explore each other’s thinking and memories. This book really helps and fills that need!”
Michelle, Amazon review, Master Edition“I was impressed at the thought and detail that went into this book and if you are looking to strengthen any part of your relationship with a partner I would recommend reading this.”
Marion Scott, Amazon review, Master Edition
Not sure where to begin?
Three free places to start.
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The Relationship Quiz
Some couples struggle with connection, others with communication or trust. Out of the seventeen dimensions of a healthy relationship, see where yours shines and where it needs help.
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The Relationship Workbook
100+ guided conversations from the same method, free in your inbox in two minutes.
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Meet Dr. Sytner
Two minutes on why this exists.
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Couples therapist, professor, author, rabbi, and a kidney donor.
I wrote Couples Conversations because of what I kept hearing in my office. Dr. Ari Sytner.
- Certified Gottman Therapist. One of a small number of PhDs worldwide to hold the certification.
- PhD, LCSW, M.Ed. Licensed clinical social worker and clinical professor at Yeshiva University’s Wurzweiler School of Social Work.
- Author. The Couples Conversations series, Start With You, Loving Your Spouse Through Anxiety (coming soon), and The Kidney Donor’s Journey.
- Husband and father. Married more than twenty-five years, four children, and still learning the questions.
Free
Take one thing home.
The free workbook, 100+ guided conversations, in your inbox in two minutes.